Saturday, June 2, 2012

人生如戏,圆满的结局真的那么难?

Mangy

记得第一次在兽医那里见到Mangy的时候是去年十二月,那时候的他皮包骨,全身上下都没有了毛发,四肢都有明显的伤痕,有的还因为细菌感染而红肿发烂了。。

第二次的时候是影响最深刻的时候,那时候兽医的助理正好带他出去散步,他耳聋加上因为药物的副作用,又好一段时间他都看不清楚,也很害怕四周的一切。那时候的他是兽医的助理抱着进出的。

第三次的见面是今年的农历新年后,全身毛松松白色的他刚冲好凉,性格很开朗的从boarding kennel那里走出来,自信满满的样子,差点就认不出两个多月前他就是那个皮包骨、光秃秃、全身发烂发臭的流浪狗。

接下来的见面都是我去拿茶包的药时,顺便去看看他。好乖巧、好开朗的一只土狗,一只一直希望得到人们的关注和爱的狗狗。他的年纪不小了,根据兽医的推测,Mangy大概有7或8岁左右,视力恢复了,身和心的伤口复原了,现在的他正在等待,不断地等待;他在等待一个机会,一个机缘,一个能够给他家的人,一个能够让他三餐温饱、照顾他直道终老的那一刻。

去年十二月被人救了以后就丢弃在兽医所那里至今,期间完全没有人愿意领养它就因为他不是纯种的,就因为他的父母不是特定的血统,就因为他和路边其他也需要家的狗一样普遍,就因为这一切不由得我们控制的因素,没人愿意考虑给他一个机会,一个家。尽管他有多么的乖巧,可爱,尽管他多么的努力去展现他那开朗的笑容和亲切,那种友善温柔的举止,在人类的眼中就是比不上血统这两个字。可悲~

Mangy是个男生,已经结扎。今年大概有7、8岁,对人或其他动物都很友善,已经学会上厕所了,他只要求有瓦遮头,每天有两餐填饱肚子,有个愿意爱他直到他终老的主人,就这么简单。


Bobby

Bobby曾经有主人,曾经有个爱他的家,不知何故有天与另一只大型犬打了起来,脸上受了伤,它的主人就把他送到兽医那里去治疗,然后就把他给留在那里了。

比起Mangy,Bobby对陌生人有些警惕,但是只要让他了解到你没恶意它其实是个很爱撒娇的老家伙。第一次遇见他也是在兽医那里,那时候兽医刚好把他脸上的伤口给清理干净。7年的爱,就因为一次的受伤就破碎了,换来的就是无日无终的等待,等待能够接受他、爱他的一个家。

两天前到兽医所那里拿药的时候,听说Bobby被领养了一个星期,新家庭就迫不及待的要把他送回,原因是因为长毛犬需要很大的精力和时间去照顾毛发。。

其实不管是购买或者是领养,既然选择了长毛犬就应该预料了需要花多些精力和时间去打理毛发。就因为刚把Bobby领养的时候有兽医所内的助理每天去打理他的毛发,就认为长毛犬的毛发自然会一直那么漂亮,可惜现实世界并不像在玩网络游戏一样,一个click就可以把所有事情都打理好。。

就这样,7岁的Bobby,男生,西施犬,非常期待得到一个关爱他的家。


Sashimi for the PAOs

video

After much reading online, and consulted experienced dog owners who fed their four legged friends fresh fishes, I've decided to give it a try today. Manage to get few different type of short mackerel ( there are a few types of mackerel commonly found in Malaysia, ie "Kembung", "Mabung", "Selar") from local supermarket. Turned out that Dao Sah Pao is more tolerant to the concept of eating raw fishes compared to Teh Pao.

Dao Sah Pao will have the entire fish irregardless of which part, whereas Teh Pao will go for the tail up to the stomach area, leaving the head for Dao Sah Pao to clean up. Wasn't bad for a start, I shall get some fresh sardine for the PAOs tomorrow and see what are their response.

Friday, June 1, 2012

The PAOs Maintenance: May 2012

Month of May had been very hectic for me, so the PAOs got to deal with processed food - kibbles.

Monthly average for the PAOs expenses as per May 2012:
Food: RM223.40 RM179.40
Treats: N/A
Veterinary & Medical: RM48.90
Accessories & Miscellany: RM40
Total Monthly Expenses: RM268.30

Expenses for may had been under control, mainly because I hardly have the time to go shopping due to exam period. Food wise, I had to return and got a refund of RM180 for the bag of Taste of The Wild dog kibbles to the shop I bought it from because it is on the Diamond recall list ( although local supplier denied his batch of supplies are affected, but they couldn't and wouldn't trace the source of the supply), hence the difference in the total food expenditure. Went and got a bag of 7Kg Orijen at price of RM136 for the PAOs, they didn't quite like it compared to TOTW but after a day, they both wipe everything clean from their bowl. Manage to get some fresh chickens and pork liver from local supermarket in between study breaks, at round up figure, 3 fresh chickens with head and feet cost around RM30, as for the pig liver, it was RM2.90 for a large slice. Manage to get 2 fresh pork knuckles at RM10.50 for the PAOs to chew on ( and for them to clean their teeth).

Didn't spend any for treats, because mom baked a lot and she kept a small portion of the plain dough to make into treats for the PAOs. ^^

Dao Sah Pao in the car, on the way to animal hospital for X Ray

Spent a little on medical for Dao Sah Pao on May, mainly because she got a minor infection on the incision site ( where she was spayed), her vet was kind enough to check and dispense antibiotic FOC, and I had to make a trip to local drug stores to get a new cotton roll and antiseptic cream to apply on the incision site, after cleaning with iodine. Shortly after Dao Sah recovered from the infection, she had constipation and was in pain, she wasn't able to walk initially, and upon initial inspection by the vet, on the safe side, he suggested that I take her for X Ray in nearby animal hospital just in case it has a blockage or problem with her pelvic ( she had a fractured pelvic before I adopt her). Luckily it wasn't the pelvic nor blocked intestine, she was just having a constipation, and her daily diet will have to include a higher fiber source, ie steam pumpkin.

Scratch, scratch, scratch..

Spent RM40 on basic grooming for Teh Pao because she was suffering from seasonal atopy, it was worse than usual, although I tried to keep her indoor most of the time, but being the sunny month of May, pollen just found their way into everywhere, carried by wind mostly. Teh Pao's groomer did a great job in bathing her, with the help of medicated shampoo ( Malaseb), and the use of prednisone, we manage to keep her allergy under control. =)

Expenses for May is manageable, but I wasn't so keen in having both the PAOs on processed food in the long run. Raw feeding been proved to be helpful in Teh Pao's allergy and I intend to put her on raw feeding, kibbles will have to be the last resort then. 

Wednesday, May 30, 2012

SMILE

Got home from the depressing exam hall today and was greeted by both the PAOs.





How can I not love them?

Saturday, May 26, 2012

平衡点

非常讨厌不了解情况的人来批评我的生活,真的非常讨厌。败家,每个人都会,问题是在败谁的身家?讨厌那些认为我没吃过苦的人不懂得珍惜。就是因为吃过苦,尝试过三餐只吃廉价面包的生活长达一个多月,也尝试过一天只能够吃两餐,一包价值RM3以下的经济饭需要分两餐的日子,更是尝试过在外边过夜,不是住旅馆、宿舍而是在火车站的椅子上过夜。吃苦,是每个人的人生都会出现的一个时段,所以我非常明白有机会就要对自己好一些,存些钱,也要找钱。钱,本来就是一个肮脏的字眼,家里肯给钱,我拿,给多少我不去算,当作是额外的。中学毕业到现在,快22岁的人了,同年的朋友很多都毕业了、工作了,我还在校园生活的阶段,所以我知道我比别人幸运。

投资的失败,是每个投资者都必须能够承担的风险,所以我从来不会把自己手上没有的钱拿来投资。我讨厌的不是自己的钱亏掉,讨厌的是别人亏掉的钱要我来还!不懂得珍惜?现在是谁不懂得珍惜?老爸找钱,老爸有钱那是老爸的钱,成年以前父母必须对我们的基本生活负责,没错,这是作为父母的法律责任。14岁的少年,出外吃喝玩乐平日不是父母提供金钱资助就是找我要钱,小数目我给,青少年偶尔会要出门跟朋友去娱乐娱乐。去书局、逛街要什么就拿什么,因为自然的就会有人帮你买单;但是14岁会需要手提电脑、ipad、iphone么?手提电脑不要那些“便宜”的,要最新、最in、超薄、轻便还要苹果牌子的,ipad、iphone要最新出的,14岁的家伙有需要吗?如果说自己有能力去买,管你用的是长年累积的零用钱买还是自己有本事正正当当的找钱来买,要买什么买多贵多新的东西,就算拿去烧,我才不管。但是自己没钱,要高科技的东西自己却连基本的电脑maintenance都不会,一开口就要老爸买,你当我们的老爸是财神爷还是魔术师,变一变就有数不尽的钞票让你花。。父母的投资计划一大半都是为了现在14岁的你日后升学需要用到的。

23岁的人毕业后就坐在家里摇脚,花费全部家里出,要求帮忙看管家庭生意,短短的5个小时工作却认为很辛苦。好啦,辛苦就别在家里做咯,两个月后终于甘愿找工作啦。第一份工,典型的办公室工作,有没经验也没有知识就一张大学文凭,工资1.8k离家里5分钟走路的路程,做了两个星期就认为很无趣,勉强顶到一个月后拿了工资就跟老板说拜拜。又在家里呆两个礼拜,每天不是吃饱睡,睡饱上网玩游戏就是出去跟朋友玩到三更半夜才回家。应该是口袋省不多钱了,伸手拿不到就去找份工,做sales,离家半小时的路程,工资不详不过依据目前市场价,一个trainee sales的底薪应该不多。卖脚车,别小看这个行业,便宜的脚车又便宜的市场,专业的脚车又有另外一种市场,加上目前越来越多人开始买脚车来代短距离的步伐,这个市场还在扩展着。工作第一个月,钱不够花很正常,家里帮补一些,但是三个月后还是说钱不够用,可是三餐都在外边吃,不要经济饭要old town、subway或者是到餐馆去点菜的,用家里的车即不用供也不需要烦恼汽油、维修等其他的维用,电话的费用也是老爸在给,本身什么产业、贷款都没有,一身轻,还是一样每天工作后跟朋友出去玩到三更半夜才回家,这样的生活,钱不够用还要意思跟家里拿,三兄妹出去吃饭不请都算了,偏偏连自己的那份也不愿意出,真的有那么糟吗?还是态度问题?

自私,每个人都会,但是自私的程度到达拿自己家人的便宜未免太过分了吧?往往一个家庭在老一辈的去世后都会四分五裂,这点我老早就明白了问题出在哪里。不是因为钱伤感情,而是作为父母的没有能力去公平地对待每一个子女,却一直强调大家都是公平、同等的。当然作为子女的,之间也应该give and take,如果父母只一味的宠一方面然后强调公平的对待,受宠的又一味的take for granted,别说一个家,看看我国的场面就好了。治国先治家,治家先治其身,最基本的平衡点老早都不见了,还说什么和平、和睦相处?没事的时候做做样子,一出事的时候狮子之间抢猎物的场面就会出现。手足之情?你记得,别人老早就把情分丢进马桶冲掉了。








又回到了身无分文的日子
用钱财来经营的家庭关系有时候真的让人感到很无奈

Donkey lawyers

Last paper on 29th May 2012, 9.00am, it is Land Law. Should be preparing for exam instead of getting stressed by other issues but things just happened and needed to be fixed.. *sigh*

Being a law student myself I wasn't and still not proud of the legal profession, I guess it is because I don't really enjoy my college life doing external programme that is 100% exam based. Irony part is that I'm always the one ended up solving my dad's or any other family members' problem regarding on tenancy agreement, evictions and small claims. I think my dad is right, I may not enjoy doing what I'm studying right now but that doesn't mean I can't learn the skills and knowledge, later put it to good use.

Currently working on 2 cases, another small claim from shitty tenant for overdue rents, and filing eviction notice to former property owner. I can understand why my dad wants me to do the small claim, because you will end up spending more for legal fees if you were to get a lawyer involved, but I can never understand how a lawyer survive not knowing how to handle difficult tenant! See scenario given.

Problem:
3 months overdue rent from tenant, 2 months of utilities not paid, damaged newly renovated bathroom and ceiling, total estimation of claim no more than RM5000.

Lawyer A advised my dad to do the common practice- lock up the house when nobody is in there, stop all water an electricity.. 

That is a big no no which drives me crazy because this advice comes from a certified legal practitioner! For heaven sake, it is lucky that my dad told me about it and has the sense of doing it the right way. 

What we did:
We gave an eviction notice to the tenant by dropping a copy in his post box although we knew he is not likely to receive it because the tenant hardly show up in the house anymore. Courier another copy to the addressed provided ( as per his IC) which we are sure he is now located at, and kept a copy ourselves, giving a grace period of 1 month for the bugger to pack up whatever shit he needs to pick up and get lost. Towards the end in serving the notice, we filed an eviction summons in court against the tenant, claiming overdue rent, utilities and also to get our right over the property again. Of which that time the tenant moved out, but not a single cent paid. So now we are in the process of filing for small claim against outstanding rental as well as other expenses incurred ie. repair of damages done in the premise...etc

Often people follow the common practice of cutting off utilities, and seal off the premise by locking up the gates and entrance without giving any eviction or termination notice. The problem lies here, two out of ten of these shitty tenant might be smart enough to pay a little to claim damages from the landlord and even filing for an injunction against he landlord from disturbing his or her stay on the premise. Well, bottom line for this situation is that when the tenant fail to pay rent, they do not contribute any form of consideration to the contract, so eventually the tenancy will lapse. But with all the proceedings that the tenant filed against the landlord, the owner of the property will later face a lot of trouble in getting back his/ her property. That's because Malaysia law protects tenants more than the owner of the property- landlord, or in short, the law is pro- tenant.

It pays to learn a lesson in real life. We experienced once and learnt our lesson, as for Lawyer A? We said good bye to him.

Thursday, May 24, 2012

Mutual respect

Well, I guess the kitty nearby decided to join Dao Sha Pao in Bollywood actions.

Meet Kitty the kitty ( pun intended).

Isn't she adorable?

She was taking a nap while me and younger brother dine in for lunch, just a couple of minutes walk away from home. Usually we take the PAOs' along, provided we're not rushing off somewhere nor going to rain because we'll have to take the outdoor seats right at the corner where not many people will pass by. It is about mutual respect though, shop owner is a Muslim origin from India, and he is fine with the idea of his customers bringing along their four- legged companion, well, of course with self- discipline.

Kitty is a stray but I've had her spayed quite some months back after the litter she produced died of "mysterious" reasons. Population control for strays with humane method is relatively low in this area, although efforts been made to reach pet owners, to educate, provides freebies, discounted rates for neutering... blah blah, to a certain extent that there was one period that free neutering was advocated and provided but response was so bad. Well, I guess that will take a long time to change people's mindset. =)

Have a new addition to the pack back in Perak. Officially named Char Siew Pao.

This poor litter guy was separated from his mother at young age of 3 weeks old, not that we wanted to do so but the mother ( from a factory) been abandoning her pups one by one then later attacked them, each died swiftly. Char Siew Pao is the last surviving one. The Nepalese workers from the timber factory decided to give him away, so they got our Nepalese worker to ask for permission to keep. It is good that they're improving in certain way, ie. compassion and responsibilities. 

RIP Brownie

The first dog that we sent over, Brownie died in a tragic road traffic accident mainly because Brownie had been straying around equipped with a brilliant mind, he dug a 1 feet deep hole underneath the gates and ran out one day, that was the very day of his death, hit by an ongoing bus.

Ever since Brownie's accident, this Nepalese worker took the initiative to fix the fence and gates around, securing our farm, place where he is staying all alone. But that wasn't enough to stop burglars and thieves from visiting, stealing and robbing is one thing, hurting workers is one that we cannot tolerate but the police forces are hopeless in that town. So I sent Ah Ptui, a 2 months old puppy adopted from a vet clinic located at nearby town over, as a companion, and later with training, became a watch dog. Since Char Siew Pao will need a home, though not ready for vaccination, the very best we can do is to separate the dogs until this little feller is fully vaccinated. As for training? It started on the very same day Char Siew Pao arrived, by introducing the dogs' sleeping quarter, and other basics. I guess it is a good thing that in their spare time, the workers are taking initiative to do something positive, engaging in planting their own food, keeping pets and so on, that's very much better than the earlier batches whom most of them turned alcoholics and later commit petty thefts in our farm. Good workers and staffs are assets, whether locals or foreigners, as employers we should practice mutual respects, and even encourage them to improve themselves, rewarding them for their efforts.

Meet handsome MANGY, he NEEDS HOME

This old chap here is Mangy, met him in the PAOs' vet clinic, a rescue case and been boarded there for monthsss. A very aodorable old boy, estimated to be around 7 years of age, a little deaf, otherwise he is a cheerful guy that goes around welcoming visitors, he even enjoys people taking him out for walk or just a simple pat on the head! The vet said he is up for adoption but not many express interest in adopting a mixed breed dog, especially he is not a puppy. But then, the clinic staff still keeps high hope for Mangy, who will be castrated for free, fully vaccinated and toilet trained. Anyone interested may leave your email here, and I will send the contact number of the vet.


Bought another round of pork knuckles for the PAOs from local supermarket. 2 medium size knuckles cost RM10.40, which will last the PAOs' for 2 days. The only pork product that I gives to the PAOs are limited to Pork Knuckles and sometimes Spare ribs for them to chew on, those are much healthier compared to commercial beef/ raw hides sold at RM10 per stick that can last for a week. The only downside of giving fresh, raw bones for chewing is that you'll need to supervise them while they enjoy their teeth floss, I don't want any emergency trip to the vet that ended up with X Rays & surgeries due to foreign objects obstructions in their intestine. I do notice that ever since I stop completely on the processed raw/ chew hide bought from local pet stores, Teh Pao's itching reduced a little, though not all. So I suspect her allergy can also be of chemical used to processed those not so healthy chews.

I'm crossing my fingers, hoping the PAOs will be able to live a long and healthy lives. It is strange that locally, you don't see much really old dogs and cats. Old as in years past 13 for dogs, and 16 for cats, I guess it is a matter of care taking, food and welfare which lies heavily on the owners' shoulders, and a minor part played by the Universal Rules, of which, it is also about mutual respect between many parties here. ;)